25 Self Care Ideas For Moms That Only Have 10 Mins To Spare

Self Care Ideas For Moms

Happy New Year girl!

How you doing?

It’s the first week of the year, and that means new beginnings for us all! Now, I don’t know about you, but I am so over the “new year, new me” bullsh*t that everyone spews out during the first month of each new year. Okay? Like, we get it, you wanna change sh*t up, go ‘head, do you, mama! But don’t be sitting here telling us on every other Facebook post how much you’re gonna change this year, to only end up doing the exact same sh*t you were doing last year.

And guess what? This applies to me too! I have a tendency to say I’m going to change something each year, and then those promises get shoved under a rug somewhere inside my scattered mom brain, and it never happens. But I’m determined to change that this year!

With that being said …

This month’s theme is: Becoming A Better Mom

Which means that every post I write this month will be geared towards becoming a better mom.

Today’s post is dedicated to self care ideas for moms, who can never seem to slow down enough to stop the world from spinning for a few minutes, like you, and sometimes me too.

25 Self Care Ideas For Moms That Only Have 10 Mins To Spare

About a week ago, a Facebook friend of mine and fellow blogger, Danielle from Ok Dani, asked everyone what they were doing for self care that day. Someone responded and said she had no clue where to start. Like many other moms, she was overworked, overwhelmed, and her to-do list seemed so long she didn’t think there was a way she’d be able to fit in an hour of self care.

For most busy moms, that’s the reality of life, and if we try to change that now with no real support, we’re only setting ourselves up for failure.

That’s why I created this list of self care ideas, which should all take about 10 mins (eachto complete. Listen Linda, not everyone has time for a full hour of self care each day! Hell, some of us can’t even get a full hour of silence, most days.

With this list of ideas, you’ll be able to pick one self care item to do each day, or as needed, without feeling guilty about having to leave the kids with someone else. (And if you can’t ever seem to find a babysitter when you need one, then this is perfect for you.) You can do most of these tasks right at home, while your child takes a nap. And guess what? Ten minutes ain’t gonna kill you or your to-do list, girl! So you don’t have no damn excuse this year! You hear me? We gon’ get our sh*t together this year girl, you and me both!

To make it easier for you … for us! I’ll be hosting a 7 Day “Self Care in 10 Mins” Instagram Challenge for busy moms that need some extra motivation + support with this, in two weeks! I’ll have more details for you this Sunday when I send out my first newsletter of the year, so if you haven’t already, click the photo below to subscribe to my newsletter so you don’t miss a thing!

25 Self Care Ideas For Moms That Only Have 10 Mins To Spare

Now on to your list …

25 Self Care Ideas For Moms

  1. Put on a face mask (don’t know where to start? try this mud mask)

  2. Wine up yo’ waist to soca or reggaeton

  3. Pop in Kayne’s “Get Right For The Summer Workout Tape” and work it out

  4. Read the Confessions section of the latest Cosmopolitan Magazine

  5. Learn a new yoga pose

  6. Listen to your favorite song or something soothing

  7. Take a walk around your neighborhood

  8. Color a page from this adult coloring book

  9. Write down your feelings in this “I Need Some Me Time” journal

  10. Slowly sip a glass of wine (or try a few sips of this tequila)

  11. Indulge in a quick snack, like these thindulgent cookies or this popcorn 

  12. Call a friend and catch up for a few mins

  13. Comb your hair and let it loose

  14. Turn the lights off and light a candle, this one smells really good

  15. Eat something healthy (like an apple, or a salad)

  16. Paint your nails, then spray them with this quick-dry spray (it really works)

  17. Laugh! (Listen to a funny podcast, or call a friend and ask them to tell u a joke)

  18. Power Nap (ok just close your eyes and pretend you’re napping)

  19. Splurge a little (buy one thing online that you really want)

  20. Deep condition your hair, using this or your fav

  21. Get dressed up, even if you’re staying in and put on your fav perfume 

  22. Doodle or draw something in this cute notebook

  23. Play a game on your phone

  24. Have a cup of tea or coffee, with this “ask your father” mug

  25. Play with your kid(s) for 10 mins (this definitely helps me)


Don’t do anything at all for the entire 10 mins! Just sit still and try to turn off your thoughts.

So what do you think?

Sounds easy enough, right? Now that you have a few suggestions to get you started all you have to do is set aside 10 mins each day, and just pick one of these things to do. It’s that simple! But if this still sounds scary, or it just doesn’t sound doable, just subscribe to my newsletter so you can join my 7 Day “Self Care in 10 Mins” Instagram Challenge, and I’ll help ya through it!

Now do me a favor and spread the word by clicking the link below so you can let your mom friends know about this list! (Feel free to tell them about my IG challenge while you’re at it.)

Now tell me …

Does this sound doable to you? Do you think you can fit these self care ideas into your busy routine? Is there anything else you’d like to add to this list?

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  • Angelica Arias

    So many wonderful ideas for self-care. Love the idea to learn a new yoga pose! I’m going to try that!

    • Thank you! Let me know how it goes when you do.

  • Ha! That first paragraph had me rolling! And it’s sooo true, too! As for the list, your #4 took me back!! I had forgotten how much I used to love reading that section of Cosmo! I need to get back to doing that. – Amy

    • Yes! I haven’t been able to read mine either because I’ve been working so darn much now. But I totally miss reading that one section. LOL

  • Tee Evans

    First of all, I love the name of your blog! Out of the 25 tips my personal favorites are 13 which is really all about simplicity and how you much of a difference they make. Number 18 is hilarious! I’m going to try this today. And 25, I can’t tell you how many times just taking 10 mins to play with my kids has lowered my stress level. Really helpful tips. Thank you.

    • Thank you! (This name took some work! LOL And it’s currently no longer true at the moment. Right now I’m TIRED LOL)

      But yess! Playing with my kid is like an instant stress reliever because she’s so goofy.

      Thanks for reading and commenting.

  • Nicole Gilbert

    I love this!! I am a stay at home momma to 2 little boys under the age of 2. I know that i can go days (sometimes weeks) without doing any self care… and man, does it take it’s toll!! I will definitely be putting some of these quick fix self can tips to good use!! http://www.thatcrazymilspouse.com

    • I can imagine the stress it takes to raise two little boys. I cringe every time I see a boy child run around. They’re WILD. Lol Glad I could help.

  • Jenni L.

    I love this! Self-care is the first thing to go with a busy schedule but everyone should try to justify atleast 10 minutes!

    • Exactly! And women are the first people to forget about themselves.

  • Keri @flipflopweekend

    These are great ideas! It is so hard to remind myself to take some “me” time, but I know it is important!

    • Totally! Even if it’s knowing when to quit working so you can get an extra 10 mins of sleep.

  • Messy Cutting Board

    What great ideas, because the quote is true we all don’t have an hour lol!! Thank you I will keep these in mind!!

    • Right! LOL What mom really has a full hour to her self? Even when we’re out they’re calling. LOL

  • Chelsey Horne

    These are great tips! I need to take more time for myself, I will keep these in mind thank you!

  • Hannah Lyda

    My favorite way to wind down is with a good candle! There is something so therapudic about the flame slowly flickering and the scent of the wax filling the air. I can’t wait to try some more of these. Thanks for the list!

    • This is what I need to do this year! Candles! I love sweet smells too, so that might actually work for me. THANKS!

  • Karrie Frost

    What a great list. I love that these are easy, and don’t take a lot of time, but can make a huge impact!